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What my father never told me.

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Energy Exchange!

We can read and go to a faraway land but in the end we have to come back and face ourself. We can watch movies, when we are bored, go out and have a great time with the ones we love. But when the love becomes monotonous, we come back to face ourself. We can […]

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Lolita and Dharma

I define dharma as that thing which you have to do no matter what the cost might be, if you have a western bent of mind, you might call it as “one’s duty” but that would be a black and white interpretation of this holistic Sanskrit word dharma. Iam not an expert theologian or a […]

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Criticism of our work.

Migrant workers –  This morning, when i went to for a cutting chai, i saw a scene being created by a few BMC officials with the chaiwala. They were asking 500 Rs fine, for illegal hawking. The chaiwala was serenely blissful while the BMC officials forcefully seized his container from which he dispenses tea. After […]

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Feeling insignificant lately.

When you identify yourself with your ego the pain and suffering starts and slowly consumes you. THe moment you are in presence of something or someone bigger than yourself, your ego disappears in a sense of awe and wonderment and we feel one with all.  No matter we feel good about ourself when we are […]

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When to give up on your desires?

You only desire, what seems possible or what is possible to dream off. For eg. You might dream of a big 4 bhk house in Hiranandani Gardens, Powai or any tony neighbourhood. But you wouldn’t even dream of a 4 bhk on a moon or mars for that matter.  So desires are calculated risks, we […]

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I had to do it.

I like being in this situation where there is no other choice left, but that what needs to be done, and which I have to do it. If i was the CEO of Nike, I would change the slogan from “Just do it” which is has connotations of “unconscious”  decision making to ” I had […]

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Is the desire to control a necessary evil?

OK, iam tired on my own self indulgent writings, but sometimes i just write to get things out of my head . We all love to control the outcome of any particular discussion, action , inaction or reaction. We control things by controlling people, sometimes by force, sometimes my our cleverness, sometimes by love. What we actually […]

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Moral code of conduct for the social media and blogsphere writer.

Now calling myself a writer would be a unfair to other writers  But I do moderate a 3 large forums with about 8000 fans together. Also I need to amuse my fans and get the discussion going around to keep more fans from joining in social media. My style is a bit over the edge, every […]

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Who do you depend upon?

We depend on our family, friends and relatives during trying times. If that doesn’t help, we can get lost in the wonderful world of drug dependency, or become a alcoholic. If we have a little sense of responsibility we take to minor form of dependency like painkillers, cigarettes and caffeine to get us through.  We can depend on shopping aka retail […]

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I cant get no Focalisation

I try hard , really hard so that I can focus, but I cant get no focalisation.  I try hard, really hard to throw those monkey’s off my back!! Maybe I am dyslexic, or just plain distracted?  The world has too much of too much to really focus on something paricular, dont you think sweetheart? […]

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Some thoughts

Okay, Im consumed by work nowadays and maintaining a personal blog has become really taxing, so from now on I will have generic topic as blog post. Anyway no one reads my blog 🙁 But I plan to update my blog more often, maybe daily or at least twice a week. I believe love is transient, as soon as […]

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दूदोगे तो सब कुछ मिलता है

An elderly gentleman said ”दूदोगे तो सब कुछ मिलता है”  . Is it true we will find what we are searching for, if we search hard enough? But nevertheless this phrase is stuck in my head for sometime now, and I am thinking about smarter ways to search. Everyone is searching for something or the other, the […]

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The cure for dumbness

I dont know about you, but i felt very smart from the age of 17 to 36, but now that I am no longer in that attractive age bracket, I have been feeling overwhelmingly dumb about myself. Its terrible to know, you are not smart, witty, good looking and not that fit also.The delusions of youth leave […]

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Natural body clock

I decided that to have some order in my physical life, I need to set a routine for myself, I figure it would help me handle the crazy chaos in my mind space. If I knew when to get up, when to brush, when lunch and when to exercise. So I decided to go about […]

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Does Blogging about your personal life mean you are seeking attention? and Pasta in Basic tomato sauce.

Its been sometime, since i blogged, sometimes its difficult to talk about your life in an open blog. I have heard various reactions over the past few days on people who blog about their personal life, and was wondering if this is all about attention seeking. Yes I want to connect to strangers through my […]

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Psychology and Sigmund Freud

I was talking to my girlfriend last night ,and was telling her about all her personality flaws ( I do that whenever I have free time ) . I was accusing her, “You take all your decisions on basis of your fears, You act of of fear” This constructive criticism went on and on, till […]

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I am missing Rumi

“I am so small I can barely be seen. How can this great love be inside me? Look at your eyes, they are small but they see enormous things” Rumi I bet you didn’t know,I was part of the a company(Partner) which was  scheduled to do a show on Sufi Music along with select poems […]

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Things can only get BETTER!!!!!!

No matter how many Fuck ups /screw ups  one has in life . I tell myself only one thing, evolution is always progressive, Things can only get BETTER!!!:))

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Working from home

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Show me the profit!!!!!

As I am reminded almost every hour by sms/email/call from my bank, about the balance in my account, credit card payment dues and issued cheque status. I think about ways to increase my income.I have 3 revenue models and bit of a expertise in these 3 fields, by which i can do so .. My […]

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