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An idea a day can keep the zombie feeling away!

I dont know if you ever feel this way, a feeling like your brain has slipped off your head or if it is jammed and paralysed. You are not able to think anything, and can only watch TV or stare at the computer screen.

So yesterday I was thinking about a solution to this problem, I had this idea hitting me, and suddenly, I saw myself come alive, widely awake, my mind racing to execute the idea. It was an idea, where I will be adding considerable value to my current business model and create a new revenue stream. I immediately jumped and started the work and implemented a beta model of sorts. So an idea is basically a solution? 

The critical part about an idea is of course its delivery, any idiot can come up with ideas, its really no big deal. But delivering the idea to the final stage is what creates value, The thing about idea’s is that it will HIT YOU when you least expect it, one has to completely relaxed, with no presssure of any sorts.

So how do I reach this stage of complete relaxation, without going through the zombie stage. Are there short-cuts? I know all the crap about hardwork, but once again “are there any short-cuts where you can reach this relaxed stage so your mind becomes a factory churning out ideas.

Executing is a different ball game altogether, if you are going to need a team, there are chances that your idea’s will be sabotaged and somewhere lost. For execution you might need a team, resources to raise finance, contact to get the due dilegence done and other mundane and important stuffs!

Yesterday as I was watching Seth Godin video on a similar topic, where he suggests that if you dont want your ideas to fizzle out, make sure you thrash them initially rather than at a later stage, then the effort required to execute the idea is like going downhill. 

An idea can make you come alive, but if executed successfully, can add 5 stars to your confidence.The execution part need not be drudgery, it can divided into small units of meme to make it interesting and interactive.

But again how do I generate enough ideas on a consistent basis, so I don’t run out of steam, and that’s what I hate about my brain!!!

Magic & Awareness, my mantra for now.

I would like to wake up each day with a new mind/body/soul, fresh and light. But I wake up, instead with the issues and problems of yesterdays, and I wonder, how can I resolve all my past issues, before the day ends,why cant a day be like a movie which ends with all loose ends tied up! So tomorrow when I wake up I can say “Carpe Diem” and throughly have a kickass day! 

Iam wondering can our problems and complex issues which are there because of our deep rooted belief’s be resolved, if one sets one mind to it, then I suppose, I have a very bad will power, or maybe I lack focus.Is will power or the ability to focus on a complex problem the only answer to getting rid of problems/challenges of past and also problems/challenges which arise momentarily on day to day basis?

Maybe I should list down these issues, with two columns.

  • Long term issues 
  • Short term issues.

I have done this in the past, sounds a bit silly, doesn’t it? Short term challenges if not dealt on time, become into this huge issues, which becomes almost irreversible, but we stupid people discover these issues only when it become fatal, like cancer which is in majority of the situation’s discovered at terminal stages.

So it becomes highly imperative that you resolve small issues on a daily basis or as soon as you can, right? The more you delay on your part to diagnose the minor cancer cells(issues), the more chances of it becoming life threatening. 

Not being able to diagnose your problems at an early stage means, you have been living in unawareness!! What worries me no end, are the problems from the past, which have now become too huge, will it take me down, like a last stage cancer? So my last chance like a terminally ill person is to expect a miracle and believe in “Magic”. I  am convinced that all that all that can save me is “magic”. (So I even bought a book on magic.)

I would like to quote a wonderful quote on “magic” i received from Divyaa Kummar

Every word is an incantation,
each thought a spell.
Use your magic

So if you have read me correctly, to get rid of my baggages and issues of the past, seems only miracles can save me, so  I need “magic” and to see that my small issues and problems dont go undiagnosed and are treated on time, I need to live in awareness!

 So do you believe in magic? do you know how to be aware? 

What women really want?

What women really want?? Is one of the bigger existential questions that man has faced along, with “who are we?” “where have we come from?” and “what is the purpose of our existence?”

Looking back over my relationships I have realised that I have never understood women. In all my relationships, I have always had a big fear.

·         Will she leave me when I’m down and out?

·         Will she kick me, when I’m down on my knees?

·         Does she love someone else more than she loves me?

·         Will I get bored with her after some time?

·         Will I find someone more interesting around the corner?

With all these fears always playing in my insecure mind, it becomes extremely difficult to trust your lover/wife. Surrendering to the woman becomes impossible with these doubts. I realised the most beautiful married relationships are when the man has surrendered to the woman in TRUST, and she in turn lets him pretend, he is ruler of the house or her world.

One can come up with superficial answers like  

·          A woman want’s a guy with an awesome good physique and outstanding good looks

·         She wants someone  powerful with pots of money, cars, houses, vacations.

·         They want men who are independent and not mama’s boys.

These things do help, but don’t make a successful relationship.

What I think is that,

What women really want is some one to love her absolutely, unconditionally and eternally.

As for me All I want is to know in my heart is  that she is the one, to surrender and to love unconditionally.